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19/10/2005 RelationshipsHave you ever really learned how to take care of yourself? have you ever actually stopped to think about it? Our relationships have been based on trying to get someone else to take care of us. When we are tiny babies..we are aware and intuitive, we immediateely begin to develop the habit of trying to please our parents to fulfill their needs so they will continue to take care of us. Later in life it continues. its is like a unconcious agreement I will try to do what ever you want me to do and be the person that you want me to be if you will be there for me and give me what I need,and not leave me. I do not think that this works well. Other people are not able to fulfill our needs successfully so what happens we get frustrated..disappointed then we try to change the other person to better suit our nneeds or we try to change ourselves to accept less than what we actually want then we do things we do not really want to do and end up resenting them sometimes unconscoiusly. IT does not work to try to take care of ourselves by taiking care of otheres. I am the only one who can actually take good care of me so I have found it musch better to do directley what I want and need to do and allow otheres to do the same for themselves. I think its better to make a choice to give or not based on what we truly feel rather than out of fear or obligation. the better we take care of ourselves the more we have to give. Itt really works for me and I now have a honest, healthy, loving relationship with my man and my self! 18/10/2005 The most important lesson in lifeThe most important lesson in life is learning how to take everything calmly
Patience.......the state of mind of someone who knows how to wait calmly ..it definatley requires constant work.
I have never ever like to wait for anything..Never liked waiting.
I always want to reach my goal, find out my answer, and get wha tever I wanted..and very quickly. But these days I now have a much better understanding of the importance of patience.
I have to make myself able to be comfortable,calm and attentive and I must be able to wait until things happen. Its good to remember that patience is not any form o ftorture, but rather a game to play with time.
Affirmation
Today, I wait calmly until opportunities come to me
17/10/2005 The world according to meI am Me and you are you. Yes you have your own perceptions and I have mine. I can appreciate your life experience but I cannot live your life. O f course, you may have a good idea of what my life is like, but you cannot experience it directly. I see the world through my eyes. And you see things in your own way. I see how I create my own life experience based on my attitudes,my thoughts and my actions. I am unique and I see the world according to my own perceptions.
You create your life based on your own values,perceptions and patterns. you are a unique and very worthy individual. I am a free and complete individual who brings something totally new to life. You aare a very special individual and you carry that in all of your life experience everywhere you go.
Today I live life to the fullest I now jump head-on into the adventure of life. I will not hide from risks. for too long my life has been marked by the boredom of routine. Looking for security I let myself sink into a routine that has eventually began to feel like a grave. Today I want to explore and broaden my horizons on the physical, mental and spiritual levels. I want to feel the Euphoria of New experiences.I believe I can create precisley the life I want to live. I DO Not have to compromise. Top 10 Feng Shui HouseplantsTop 10 Feng Shui Houseplants Best Feng Shui houseplants to generate good chi and aid in purifying the air. 1) Bamboo
A plant that will grow in all lighting conditions in the home. They can be planted in soil or rocks and only need water to keep their roots wet. Excellent choice for bathrooms and kitchens. 2) Palms (All Varieties)
Ideal for living rooms and to be used as dividers. Place in a decorative container and water when needed. 3) Rubber Plants
Round leaves are symbolic of good fortune. 4) Dracaena
This hardy plant looks great in any area of the home or office. 5) Ivy
Softens harsh lines such as the tv set or a bookcase. 6) Hanging Baskets
Choose plants with round and vibrant leaves. They are great to display in corners and at the front entrance of the home. 7) Ficus
Classified as one of the top 10 purifying plants by the scientists at Nasa. This plant is able to assist in the removal of fomaldehyde, benzene, trichlorethylene and ammonia from the air. 8) Kitchen Herbs
Plant an assortment in a clay strawberry pot or hang them in hanging basket at eye level for easy picking. Herbs thrive in all indoor climates and are easy to care for. 9) Lavender
A houseplant that promotes peace and relaxation. 10) Fresh Flowers
Put a few dollars in your grocery budget for fresh flowers. Place inexpensive mums on the kitchen counter close to the stove. They last about 1-2 weeks because they are absorbing all the toxins from the stove in kitchen. Just thought I would share my info with you cause someone else could find this very useful! 30/06/2005 BC FactsOk I live in the Lower Mainland BC and have lived here for almost 21 months! and feel like I have been here forever! I LOVE it here! Although I believe the official flower is the dogwwod tree/flower...From the air I am smelling wherever I seem to go it should be change to maybe...Cannabis?
I came across some very interesting BC info and here is what I found:
British Columbia has a rich variety of habitats, including forests, grasslands, meadows, wetlands, rivers and inter-tidal and sub-tidal zones. They support the greatest diversity of plants and mammals of any province in Canada. In addition to their diversity, the populations of some species in B.C. have global significance. The province has 75 percent of the world's stone sheep, 60 percent of the mountain goats, 50 percent of the
An interesting article I came across
23/06/2005 Live 8 Concert Barrie, Ontario MOLSON PARK Live 8Park Place (formerly Molson Park), Barrie, ON Sat, Jul 2, 2005 09:00 AM Additional Information 20/06/2005 Interesting tidbits of information!
Interesting tidbits of information! If you yelled for 8 years, 7 months and 6 days, you would have produced enough sound energy to heat one cup of coffee. Living for You, Living for Me
I could not resist letting you guys see this! this guy is good, really good keep it up MIKE!! please stop by his space and say hello!! Living for You, Living for MeLiving For You, Living For Me
As much as I try to form myself into who I want to be, I just never seem to be getting as close as I think I am. There's always something else.
I am never enough for anyone unless they’re all happy.
Yeah, I say not to care about what others think, and to be your own person, but it's nice to have others around, which is why so many of us work to earn love.
But is that right?
Should you have to work to receive the universal love that everyone deserves? If everyone deserves it, then why would anyone have to put any effort into getting it?
Why don't we get what we are supposed to get?
No one is ever enough for anyone else.
You have to have a good personality, a sense of humour. You have to be a good friend, always listen, and give advice at the right time.
We're never liked for who we are - - unless who we are happens to go by the standards for wanting to be liked.
I wish I knew the answers to every question in the world, but even then, I wouldn't be happy, because I would know that someone else wouldn't be happy either.
I live for others - but guess what, you do too.
- Michael Haack 2005 18/06/2005 WOMAN'S PERFECT BREAKFASTOk glad you passed the quiz..lol cannot believe myself there are so many that suffer from this addiction, crazy eh! here is a fun one my cousin LIndsay sent me wanted to share! Have a great weekend and HAPPY FATHERS DAYxxoxoxo WOMAN'S PERFECT BREAKFAST Her son is on the cover of the Wheaties box.
WOMEN'S REVENGE "Cash, check or charge?" I asked, after folding items the woman wished to purchase. As she fumbled for her wallet I noticed a remote control for a television set in her purse. and I figured this was the most evil thing I could do to him legally." (A MAN'S PERSPECTIVE) I'll never understand how you can take boiling hot wax, pour it onto your upper thigh, rip the hair out by the root, and still be afraid of a spider.
MARRIAGE SEMINAR Tom and his wife Grace listened to the instructor, "It is essential that husbands and wives know each other's likes and dislikes." A man walks into a pharmacy and wanders up and down the aisles. The sales girl notices him and asks him if she can help him. He answers that he is looking for a box of tampons for his wife. She directs him down the correct aisle. A few minutes later, he deposits a huge bag of cotton balls and a ball of string on the counter.
WIFE VS. HUSBAND An earlier discussion had led to an argument and neither of them wanted to concede their position. As they passed a barnyard of mules, goats, and pigs, the husband asked sarcastically, "Relatives of yours?" "Yep," the wife replied, "in-laws."
W O R D S A husband read an article to his wife about how many words women use a day... 30,000 to a man's 15,000. The husband then turned to his wife and asked, "What?"
CREATION A man said to his wife one day, "I don't know how you can be so stupid and so beautiful all at the same time. " The wife responded, "Allow me to explain. God made me beautiful so you would be attracted to me;
WHO DOES WHAT and then we don't have to wait as long to get our coffee." you should do it, because that is your job, and I can just wait for my coffee." that the man should do the coffee." and showed him at the top of several pages, that it indeed says.........."HEBREWS"
The Silent Treatment Not wanting to be the first to break the silence (and LOSE), he wrote on a piece of paper,
God may have created man before woman, but there is always a rough draft before the masterpiece. 14/06/2005 A fun one get to know your friendsCrazy Chick friggin rules the blogging universe!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thanks love this INSTRUCTIONS: 67. My nails are nine inches long. 13/06/2005 I am not a fan of Star Trek at all but the youngest tunes in sometimesThoughts after watching an old re-run of Star Trek - you know the Sci-Fi series with Scotty, Spock, Kirk and the gang. I'm not a fan(sorry Stephen) - and I assure you I am not a Trekkie. But this episode caught my attention the crew lands on a planet where anything they want is created all they have to do is think about it .. and it becomes reality. It's a vacation destination and the crew arrives for some much needed rest and relaxation. So naturally .. they're in a good mood before they even arrive and all their thoughts are about having fun and enjoying life. In the beginning everybody is having a wonderful time - it's pure heaven - they're creating wonderful things and having the times of their lives. This goes on for some time -- but after a while things start to change. As the crew gets tired they begin creating negative situations. They start creating things they don't want. The episode is about a lot of other things and it also a villain - but in some cases - the villain is their own mind - and the negative thoughts that it thinks over and over again. These very thoughts from their own mind - which created a wonderful life for them in the beginning is now making their lives miserable. This really caught my attention and I could only respond by saying what Spock would say: "Fascinating!" (I can even raise the single eyebrow just like he does.) What struck me is that what "Star Trek" was depicting in this particular episode was an analogy of real life - because this is exactly what we do in our lives everyday - all the time. We get started on something new and we have this tremendous positive energy. Everything goes well in the beginning. Whether it's a new job, a new relationship, moving to a new area, a new project - anything. We start off with this tremendous zeal and passion. But after a while we grow tired. Our positive energy now turns negative and our thoughts begin to work against us. Before you know it - you start creating things you don't want. Yes your thoughts that are created by your own mind create the things you don't want. In the end it is you and your negative, self- destructive thoughts that create the things you don't want in life - and you do this without even knowing it! It all starts when you lose focus what you want and stop creating the goals you had set out to achieve. Instead of creating what you want you start saying things like: I hate my job, my boyfriend/girlfriend is difficult, I don't like it here anymore - and the pattern continues. Then things get progressively worse and you wonder what went wrong. I'll tell you what went wrong. You stopped controlling your thoughts. You stopped having positive thoughts and most important of all - you stopped creating the things you want in life. How? You lost control of your thoughts. Your thoughts are magical. Thoughts are powerful forces of energy. Thoughts create everything you want in life. Thoughts can even create the things you don't want. Thoughts can only come from your mind - and you are the only person in charge of your own mind. So you create the thoughts that create the circumstances of your life. Since your thoughts create your reality - you create your reality. How is this possible? Your thoughts are picked up by your subconscious mind - an incredible power that will create anything you tell it. Your instructions to your subconscious mind are your thoughts. Your subconscious doesn't know good from bad. It doesn't know right from wrong. It only follows your instructions - which are your thoughts. But just like the crew enjoying a vacation in that episode of Star Trek - after a while you lose control of your thoughts and you start creating negative situations - and until now - you never knew you were doing this. Well, now you know. So what can you do to take control of your thoughts and start creating the things you want? The first thing you need to do is pay attention to your thoughts. Catch yourself thinking. Analyze your thoughts - listen to what you are thinking. Then decide if these are good thoughts, bad thoughts or needless thoughts. Decide if these thoughts work for you or against you. I can assure you that 90-percent of the thoughts you have either serve no purpose or work against you. If this is the case - you need to change them and consciously insert new thoughts - thoughts that will work for you and create the life you want. Now I know this is easier said than done. But it is a process that must begin with you understanding how your thoughts work and create your reality. 10/06/2005 Thank you so much for all your birthday wishesI had an incrediable day from start to finish! My mom got me the most beautiful Sodalite necklace with the infinity symbol to show me that her and my daddy will love me to infinity! it was very sweet also a silver and a leather chain to wear with it and some bucks $$ thanks Mom and Dad you guys rock! I got my hair done and must admit Thanks Josie for your wonderful singing voice and Ainsley you beat everyone the first birthday call of the day thanks girl Funny how when you get older all that is soooo important! My boys made my day so incrediable! I love them so much they treated me like a friggin queen! went to my favorite Greek place for dinner, got my hair done, go ta cool thumb ring from my youngest and a puppie that sings how much is that doggie from my oldest "our fav tuck in song"lol All is well in my world! xxoxox and thanks again 09/06/2005 20 more minutes as a 33 year oldgod, see what a kid I am 20 more minutes what should i do that will be memorable as the last moments of my 33 rd year... humm talk tomorrow when i am more mature lol 34 holy shit i am getting old! 08/06/2005 My birthday countdown!God I feel like a big kid! Tonight the ice cream truck was going up our hill and I got as excited as when I was a young girl and in Sault Saint Marie thats the last time I remember seeing one, god must have been like 8 or 9 years old, anyhow got a creamcycle and boy was it good. I sat here thinkinga ll day about my birthday, cannot believe i am actually hitting 34, time fucken flies when your having fun thats for sure, seems like 30 to now as like yesterday! Yep so June 9, is the big day and I cannot wait got a parcel from mom in the mail and its killing me not to peak, will see if I can do it! can I actually wait until Thursday?? the saga continues... 07/06/2005 strange days beginhttp://spaces.msn.com/members/strangedaysbegin/ this lady rocks! she made her questions all interactive and I love it great trivia girl! please go check it out 06/06/2005 Crystals and their meaningsOk, so I absolutely love to know the meaning for all crystals and stones and wear certain things in certain times etc so I just thought I would share the meanings so here you go! Agate - discerns the truth, accepts circumstances, powerful emotional healer 03/06/2005 Defending this Monster..HOLMOLKAI am under the impression that the lawyer that was defending this monster Holmolka, withheld the proof that would convict both Karla and her husband and that is why she was offered a plea bargain so that they could make sure they could convict Paul Bernardo.If so why does this low life lawyer walk the streets a free man and is not behind bars like Bernardo.He is just as guilty as the two idiots who did commit the crimes.When it was presented to the court that this evidence was withheld (tapes,DNA and so on), why did the person responsible not get arrested for withholding evidence and be severly punished for his actions.Maybe if they would have revoked his liscence permanently other low life lawyers would think twice about lying to help disgusting criminals like these two.Also are the authorities so unintelligent to think that all of this was all Bernardo’s idea!He was the scarbourough rapist but never killed till he met the superior monster behind the brutal murders.All her ideas.Remember,she had every opportunity to let the first girl go but didn’t.To think that she is using the excuse that he beat her up and that the authorities feel sorry for her makes me sick to the very pit of my stomach.Are they all weak? They see a pretty face and oh well of what she’s done ……….SHE’S A WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I’ve got just one more thing to say.People are people no matter if your man or woman.If you do the crime ,you do the time…………no plea bargan. politically appropriate ?Marion Boyd and the Karla Holmolka deals One of Marion Boyd’s most notable feminist accomplishments was her involvement with the Karla Holmolka deals. Marion Boyd was the Attorney General who approved the two deals involving Holmolka, the first in May of 1993, just after she became the Attorney General and the second in May of 1995, just before leaving. The citizens of Ontario were enraged when Holmolka, who was involved in the most grotesque sexual assaults and murders of young girls, including the sexual assault and murder of her own sister, was given what many would consider “a get out of jail card free” by the Attorney General’s Office. The trial of Holmolka lasted only three minutes after the Attorney General’s Office worked out a behind the scenes deal to get this woman murderer off the hook with a sweet deal. The deal given to Holmolka by the Attorney General’s Office was weighted heavily in Homolka's favour and was strictly adhered to by the judge, Mr. Justice Kovacs. Analysis of the submissions of the Crown Attorney and the Defence Attorney, as well as the judges reasons for sentencing, clearly exposed the gross miscarriage of justice by letting this women get a reduced sentence. The mishandling of the case by the Attorney General’s Office, headed by Marion Boyd, was a gross embarrassment to the citizens of Ontario. Marion Boyd’s involvement in the Holmolka affair was so sickening that in a speech to the Canadian Senate in March 1996, which made mention of Marion Boyd, the Honourable Senator Ann Cools stated: Canadians must know the extent of the Honourable Marion Boyd's personal role and interventions in this affair. Ms. Homolka was exceptionally well treated by the Attorney General's office, which treatment is curious and troubling. The first deal, made in 1993, granted Homolka immunity from certain prosecutions, fixed a lenient sentence, and forgave certain offences, including culpability in the death of her own sister, Tammy. Though she was never charged with this killing, an extremely unusual procedure happened that day in court. Her court hearing documents, her culpability, thereby precluding charges from ever being laid. All the circumstances of her culpability in her sister's death were read into the record. Mr. Justice Kovacs' adjudication and ruling complied with the intent of the prosecution's deal and its forgiveness of Homolka. As an experienced justice of the Ontario court, Mr. Justice Kovacs' judgments and judicial action are enigmatic. His adjudication had the effect of largely exonerating Homolka, exempting her from punishment. Judicial action shielded her and insulated her from the penalty suited to her crimes. Despite the horrendous crimes requiring his judicial scrutiny, Mr. Justice Kovacs deferred to prosecutorial discretion. Simply put, the Crown prosecutors favoured Homolka over Bernardo because she was a woman, and such seemed politically appropriate in the political atmosphere of May 1993. |
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